Origin of inspiration, depression and the way out of
depression |
Both inspiration and depression are a
result of the mind not properly understanding the situation. The most
remarkable fact about inspiration and depression is that they are
interchangeable. It is an undisputed fact that
inspiration is preferable to depression. So, let us assume a person has faced
a situation which is unpleasant, and his mind is not properly able to
understand it, and he feels depressed, which is natural. Since I have said
that depression and inspiration are interchangeable, the person can just change
this destructive depression into some constructive inspiration by telling
himself a simple fact and thereby, giving his mind another choice so that it
can choose to be inspired or to be depressed. The fact which may be
supplemented by any other fact or facts relative to the situation is - "still
the choice is mine". This realisation throws the person
hard and jerks him back to reality and then he decides, out of sheer ego, to
be inspired and not depressed. One more way would be to explain to the person
(or if he can do it himself, still better ) that getting depressed is a lot
easier than getting inspired. It is not hard to brood gloomyly over any
unpleasant situation, but what is hard is to look at it with a level-headed
attitude. (the fact being that both getting depressed and inspired are
equally hard and equally easy. The above lie is to be told so that the
person, instead of directing his energies towards getting depressed, gets
inspired). This solves half the problem of not letting the person get
depressed. The other half of inspiring him would be to sow the seed of hope
in him. One has got to let him defuse the hindering emotion linked with the
depression by whatever means. (note that depression and the emotion linked
are two separate things. Depression is persistent even after the linked
emotion has been defused. As far as the origin of this linked emotion is
concerned, I'm not quite sure, I have got to think). After the linked emotion
has been defused successfully, the person automatically comes into a
receptive mood. (the most common way of defusing the linked emotions is by
crying). (the receptive mood is the product perhaps of submission. Once the
linked emotion is diffused, the person is better able to receive what is
being fed. I am not quite sure why. It perhaps is because the moment the
linked emotion is diffused, the person suddenly feels lonely. This has
something to do with relative emotions. I have observed that when exposed to
say, ten degrees of cold, I shiver. Then , when exposed to say five degrees,
I shiver more. Then, when I'm exposed to ten degrees again, I stopped
shivering, simply because ten degrees is now hotter than five degrees. The
same way, depression alone creates suffering at first. Depression and the
linked emotion together create more suffering, but for a short period of
time, after which the state of mind is back to depression alone. Now the
person doesn't suffer, in other words, the person doesn't feel sad. In still
other words, earlier the person had something to do, that is, feel sad,
brood, etc. Now, when the linked emotion is diffused, the person has nothing
to do since he has already finished feeling sad. Now he's only depressed and
this feeling (though it is more of an attitude than a feeling) can be defused
easily as the person's mind is receptive. An understanding person can help the
depressed one by instigating hope in him. this is easy. By saying things that
fill the other person's heart with enthusiasm, and a will to do something,
which is exactly the opposite of depression, when a person wants to and has a
strong desire to do nothing. One must make sure that this newly instigated
enthusiasm is stronger than and more persistent than the depression,
otherwise the depression again overpowers the enthusiasm, or shall we now
safely call it inspiration. The sole motive of ours when we create enthusiasm
in the depressed person's mind is to dwarf the depression. We have to create
a stronger emotion than the depression, if the person is unwilling to come
out of it (or if the person has not yet defused the linked emotion). But if
he is willing to come out of it, (never should it be directly asked as we are
supposed to hide our motive. The depressed person has a strong tendency for
no reason in particular, to stay as he is. And if our motive for bringing him
out is known to him, he would resist it, thus, in effect making our job still
more difficult. Under normal state of mind, the person would have quite
naturally guessed that the other one's aim is to get him out of his
depression, but in such a state, no. He is not able to visualise anything) we
need not use a stronger weapon to combat depression, as the depressed person
himself would make a conscious effort to dwarf the depression, thus making
our job easier. When this is achieved, we can know that this has been
achieved by observing the person. He would not feel sad as his eyes would
say. He would behave in a relatively normal way, blinking his eyes
frequently, as if to disperse the tears in his eyes, breathe deeply and in
summary, try to gather himself up. At this stage, he is ready to
independently analyse the situation and understand it properly. Now it is
preferable he's left alone so that he can run his thoughts everywhere and
finally, but temporarily understand the situation that has caused the
depression. Now he himself would feel that he had needlessly felt so
depressed because of something that was not worth it. This would finally, but
temporarily bring him out of the depression. The last bit that can be done
now, to render this change permanent, is that he must be able to divert his
mind elsewhere so that the feeling of depression does not recur. (The feeling
of depression now recurs again mainly because the human clock works
drastically slowed during the depression face and minutes seems like an hour.
Thus, even if the person who was depressed for a small period of time, he
would feel that he had been depressed for a very long time, close to forever.
Thus, the person has a feeling that depression is normal and not the
inspiration pumped into him just now. So, the moment he stops thinking of the
inspiration and understanding the situation, he should be made to engage
himself in something or the other. The moment his mind is free, he starts to
visualise this new inspiration as temporary after overcoming which, he should
and must return to the depressed phase, which is, according to him permanent,
was from forever, will be forever. This turns up solely because of the slow
working of the human clock and also because the linked emotion (if remaining)
forces the person to become depressed again. So, it is essential that the
linked emotion is properly defused before pumping in inspiration. The linked
emotion can be compared to a group of cancerous tissue, a malignant cancer,
which if left behind, even the part of it can regrow to form the whole
emotion again). His
mind should be occupied and nothing said, shown or done should even hint that
you remember or even are aware of him being depressed earlier. This would
remind him of his depressed phase and create a fertile ground for the
regrowth of the cancerous emotion which would drag him back to depression. It
is safe not to be careful only when we are sure that the relative time of
depression as felt by the person is less, far less than the duration of the
inspiration that we have produced. Furthermore, our main purpose in
dwarfing depression is that because the person is not able to view anything
beyond depression, we should be able to establish a continuity from his life
before depression that is not visible to him and the future, about which you
have filled his heart with enthusiasm. I may even go to the extent of
analysing that depression is due to the thought of the future and the linked
emotion is due to the thought of the past. The more mentally mature the person
is, the less of others help he needs in solving this problem. Help is always
advisable. The ultimate result depends upon the ability of the person to
explain to himself the situation. All we can do is rendered his state of mind
conducive to do so. --Depression
is an abnormal attitude that ripens into a habit. --Sumeet Saxena |